I love everything about being a mother but there is one significant change to my life, that is my time table. Due to family commitment, Bret and I made Thursday our free time to hang out with our dear friends.
Keeping in Touch with Friends
It is really easy to lose touch with social circle when having a child. Besides arranging for someone to take care of the child, you need to deal with the fact that the little one is upset wondering why leave him or her alone at home with grandparents. This feeling is none other than, guilt.
For me, I value relationships a lot. Yes, its not about the miles away but the interactions and concern towards each other than make everything in a relationship right. And sometimes, common topic or interest brings two closer than usual.
Best Friend Beelian
Besides the daily morning phone conversations about my daughters and husbands, we have recently bought a massage package from Acu-Slim. We have even more to talk about like the massage therapists and visible firming effect 🙂
Special Best Friend Mrs Ho
Mrs Ho is the only person whom I msn with. If she’s not on msn, I’ll shut down the messenger. From time to time, we do whatsapp each other for juicy content or trashing out session. She knows best. We have a common topic about a big plan for this year and definitely, makes her the absolute choice to share about my latest findings. So much to look forward together.
Volleyball Best Friend Caiyan
The beautiful lady with the most caring personality I ever know. that’s why she is so loved by many. We have our differences and in a good way, her frank advice pulls me away from the extreme part of my character. When one of us has a problem, we want to be there for each other. We have not met alone for a long time and last week I asked her out at the usual place.
Blessed to have several. Janson, Huimin, volleyball girls, ex-banking colleagues and counting… They are nice souls who have been there when I need someone. We make effort to meet every now and then. And truly grateful for having understanding friends and willing to make Thursday available for me.
“Friendship is a rare and precious commodity. If you have a friend, who truly understands you and accepts you despite your shortcomings, then you are the luckiest person in the world.”